How to Start a Hope Chest for Your Children or Grandchildren
What is a Hope Chest?
Traditionally, a hope chest is a wooden chest or trunk that would store special items for a bride to use when she got married. Although, over time, the tradition has changed.
History of the Tradition
The tradition has evolved out of necessity. Centuries ago, when families attempted to arrange the marriages of their children, a groom’s family that was wealthy offered the bride’s family money and material possessions such as a piece of land to secure her hand in marriage. The bride’s family, in turn, would supply the new couple with material things they needed to begin their new life together.
The gift from the bride’s family was called a dowry and could be quite elaborate to include items such as expensive
Yet even if the bride’s family could not afford luxurious dowries, they still wished to offer the groom what they could to symbolize the significance of marrying and taking care of their daughter.
A hope chest could also be known as a...
- dowry chest
- cedar chest
- glory box
- bridal trousseau
- wedding chest
Handcrafted Hope Chests
Hope chests were often built for young girls by their fathers who would spend countless hours creating and decorating this special gift. In many cases, they would become a family heirloom as they were passed down from mother to daughter.
Daughters were taught by their mothers how to sew, knit, crochet and embroider at an early age. In preparation for marriage, young women would accumulate a collection of their handcrafted items to store in a special chest.
This chest was a symbol of hope for the future. It would contain items such as quilts, linens, aprons, and even lingerie. The box and its contents would become part of the new bride's household.
The Lane Furniture Company
The tradition began to lose its popularity in the U.S. by the beginning of the 20th century. But during World War I which began in 1914, the government offered a contract to the Lane Furniture Company to build ammunition boxes for the military out of pine. Once the war was over, the assembly process transformed to production and promotion of cedar boxes. And hope chests became popular again for many decades through World War II in the 1940s and beyond.
Since then, the tradition has somewhat gone astray. Although today, hope chests are seeing a resurgence and change of purpose.
Have you ever had your own hope chest?
Does It Have to Be a Wooden Chest?
No, absolutely not! A hope chest could be any chest or storage trunk-type piece of furniture. But it could also be something like a toy box. It could be a cardboard box. It could even be a plastic under-the-bed storage container. In fact, hope chest items don’t really need a chest at all. A simple shelf in a closet will do!
Today, Not Just for Girls
Nowadays, hope chests serve different purposes. Why not start a hope chest for your son or grandson? Although many people still believe in the old tradition that a hope chest is for young girls prior to their marriage, today, they are thought of as a collection of items to be used when children leave their parents' house.
Therefore, girls and boys accumulate items that they can take with them into adulthood.
What to Include in a Hope Chest
There is no right or wrong items to include. The idea is to accumulate and store special things that will be used by the girl or boy recipient in their adulthood.
Keep in mind that tastes for specific décor will change over time, so try to avoid specific schemes. In addition, they should include mementos and family keepsakes.
Ideas for Items to Include in a Hope Chest
Blankets and quilts
Old diaries, cards and love letters
Heirloom wedding dress
Table clothes, napkins & runners
Firsts: stuffed animal, X-mas ornament, etc.
Favorites: blankie, toy, etc.
Silverware and dishware
Childhood books and school projects
Family bible and religious items
Tools and tool box
Photos and videos
New (future) baby items
Silver and Gold
Crocheted and knitted items
Safety items such as smoke alarms
Handwritten notes about the significance of the specific hope chest items
Do you plan on starting a hope chest?
Preserving Memories and Creating New Ones through a Hope Chest
Anyone can start a hope chest. You can even create one for yourself!
It is a place to store keepsakes, preserve memories and make new ones for future generations. Have fun creating your special treasure.